I’ve really noticed the amount of private messaging you get now whenever you tip someone on CAM4. They are usually doing something genuinely sexy. And the people that acutally bother to tip are few and far between.
Having finished a session recently, I got this sort of interaction (which, of course, is unique to my own sense of humour)
Im not bothered by the interaction as I thought it was funny, but CAM4 should really do something about these cold-call direct messages which are increasing in popularity. Maybe however I should start a cold messaging marketing campaign of my own… 🤔
This video always reminds me of how I would love to be kept for a master until needed for service. The gear that his obedient pup wears, his chain, the way his master gets on with his morning until he’s ready to address his dog, are all such big turn ons, including being fed from his bowl.
His masters feet at the beginning of the video look so tasty, if that pup wasn’t on a chain, surely he’d be at his masters feet licking them obediently.
This is the video that always reminds me of what I get out of being a dom handler. As someone that has always fancied lads and skin lads especially, taking a sexy attractive lad who trusts you as a dom, and converting him down to look like, and feel like a sexual animal, now owned by his master and handler, to make him feel submissive and learn to lick and sniff his masters scent, suck and taste his masters cock and ass, feel his master touch and rub every part of his new smooth rubber skin and play with his cock and ass making it feel good to be owned and down at his masters or handlers feet.
This transformation for me, and enabling it, is what I really get off on during a dom handler session with a lad who wants to explore bondage, kink and even though they may not have tried to pup before, its a gateway to trying other things and exploration of some key kink ideas. Afterwards a good discussion on what they liked./didnt like or reacted to can be had ready to plan further mutual progression together.
Came (fnar fnar) across this, and wondered if this is actually true. I mean its only a minute long and I can certainly go longer than that as a top, but have a look and leave us some comments below on your thoughts… is this the perception of us Brits?
Have noticed this week that lots of “the gays” have been heading out to Gran Canaria. The reason why is that Gran Canaria hosts the Bear Carnival between 26th March and April 3rd. Most of the big parties occur on the Friday, Saturday and Sunday but given that all of the bears have been in forced hibernation for 2 years because of covid, I would imagine that this years attendance will be epic.
A little part of me is sad that we didn’t wait and go this week out there, as I would have known SO many people out there as we wandered around the bars and parties. But Nutrix and I didnt go to GC this year to do the bar & party circuit. We wanted a break and to chill for a week. However, we headed into the new Construction bar on the ground floor, which cost us each 10 Euro to get, but you were provided with a drink each. In reality this got me a vodka and coke (counted as 2 drinks!) but the kink scene inside felt really really weird to me because most of the people in there felt like “kink tourists” or locals who were stripped naked (clothes in locker) and using the darkroom area in the back as a fuck-fest.
The nice things about being in GC is being there with friends, and I definitely missed being there with people that I knew. I had no confidence at all. I went in there in a Boxer T-shirt and shorts, with TN’s and so looked kinky, but most people were naked or just in holiday clothes. And poor Nutrix experienced the bar and the difference between his 2nd kink bar and Lab.oratory which we visited when we got together and covid just hit back in March 2020.
Im hoping that I will get back there for Fetish week in October. If I do, I intend to have a week of partying out there, Its the 10th Anniversay of the event and there will be loads of people out there in kink Gear, so Zalo V3 needs to visit the bars like “Reds” that I still havent visited yet.
If you are going this year let us know. Zalo is going to be a total slut available for sub obedient btm duties where required,
Its been a long couple of years of covid, hitting all of us, but one thing that was definitely impacted by it all has been the NHS’s ability to provide a consistent sexual health screening service.
Here in Manchester, both of us felt this. We are both neg and on prep. I, Zalo, purchase my own prep online and have done for a number of years for convenience and ease of getting it since I first visited the website www.iwantprepnow.co.uk before the NHS was providing it to gay men because I knew I was at risk. Since then , after trials, the NHS can now provide it on a regular basis – its cheaper than the cost of treating HIV positive patients and in an ideal situation, everyone who is protected, and everyone who is on the correct HIV medication and undetectable means there is less transmission of the virus overall.
However, regular testing is key to this, and if you are taking prep, or having HIV treatment then its important that you can get regular appointments that suit you – I work Monday to Friday 9 thru 5, and Nutrix works shifts so again, the ability to get an appointment is key.
The Hathersage centre in Manchester has been struggling over the covid period. Key staff were moved to covid based operations and even ringing the clinic prompted for everyone to leave a message and you would be contacted back. Prescriptions for prep were extended to 6 months instead of 3, although testing of kidney functions every 3 months is still recommended.
The ability to get a normal sexual health checkup when i wasnt being prescribed prep however proved to be a nightmare for myself. Of course, when playing with other people it is only sensible to get tested regularly and after struggling to get an appointment.
I came across this service looking for a way to be privately tested called LetsGetChecked – I have actually been very impressed with it, and it offers a couple of advantages. You log on and you create an acccount on their website and there is even an app that allows you see your results, and connects with your phone health system (IOS or Android) where it can take you data and offer a range of tests (not all sexual related!) for the testing of your health. For men there is a Prostate and Hormone test that can be taken to check their levels, but for sexual health there are a range of tests at different costs dependent on what you want to be tested.
Now here is the point of my article, just so you dont miss it. These tests are expensive! For those that travelled and tried to get a covid test done, and saw the prices that were being charged, it really makes it clear to you that the 3 month check-ups that I took for granted at the Hathersage center cost a lot privately! Now obviously there is commercialism built into these prices, but if we do not appreciate the cost and use our public health services then we are likely to lose them too. The struggle with resource within the NHS now means that services like Sexual Health can all too well be outsourced to private companies, and we will soon see more of these services being offered from chemists and private online companies within the UK.
The first two tests that are offered are not really suitable for a gay mans regular check-up because if you are getting a test every 3 months which is recommended for gay men who have regular sex with other men, it should also include a HIV, Syphilis and a Hep test. So the test you need is the Standard 6 one that comes in at £119 – Over a course of a years testing that’s £476. Treatments aren’t included for most of what is found, if a test is positive, so this is only the diagnosis part and then you would need to contact your public sector NHS clinic or GP to continue with treatment.
For me, the pack that turned up was a discreet letter box shaped box, similar to the Graze boxes that I used to order in work for regular healthy treats. The pack consisted of 2 sample bottles that needed to be returned. One for urine, and a small box and pipette to help with the collection, along with a blood vial that required the use of the dreaded finger-prick devices to squeeze enough blood out of my finger to fill the vial to the correct mark.
There are very good instructions included and also you need to consider the postal service when sending back your samples. First of all, their labs aren’t open every day, so they recommend that you register your pack and then tell them the date you are going to use the pack and send in your samples. By registering first they can advise you if the day is going to be an issue – for example, its no good sending in the sample on a Friday when its going to take longer to get to their labs and probably sit in a post box until Monday and arrive on Tuesday. They need the sample preferably within 48 hours so, Mon-Thur sample taking and immediate posting in the morning are your best bet.
The app informs you when the sample has arrived at their lab, and within 24 hours I had my results clearly displayed on the app.
You can then review the in-depth lab report which shows the details of each of the tests they have performed and the status of them.
Its worth noting that Northern sexual health clinics do offer a similar postal pack for testing and sending in your samples – I have not used this service but would welcome feedback on here via comments regarding what you get back.
For me, the app report was a huge piece of mind and at a time I needed a check, but regular testing is still required for me as someone having regular unprotected sex, even though I’m on prep. Condoms are still the number one protector against most STI’s when having sex, but informed decisions are best made with the people you are having sex with.
The one thing that I did like about the app, is that in theory I can use app to show any potential sex mate that I am regular testing and the date of my last test. Given that covid testing has given us a covid app, also showing the dates of testing, the testing dates that you enter into Grindr for example are not evidential of actual testing taking place, so I wish the NHS would actually give you some sort of testing app that could then give you something to check in terms of a partners suitability before you then have sex with them. Its no guarantee, but it does show evidence that some health testing is a thought in their mind.
I’ve written this to talk about the service and if its of interest to you there is something that I can offer as part of their “Give £30 Get £30″ promotion, and if you use the link here, you will get £30 off your first test, and I will get £30 off my next test”.
This website was though, and the fact we have struggled to sit down and add much content yet, is entirely our faults, so apologies for this but we promise we have some stuff to add on here and review and put up soon. Work for us both since the New Year started has been much busier than both of us realised.
We’ve had about 100 users visit so far, so given there has been little here, we thank you for at least coming here to see what it is about.
I, Zalo, have written an About Me page, and ive also written a couple of other pages describing the pup scene and what it means to me. Everything changes, but I think you get a good idea from it what my interest in the pup scene is, and how it differs to a lot of other people.
I also have the first of our videos to add into our private video collection. You wont see us have an OnlyFans yet, although we had thought of creating one for free to store our content, we are both attempting to be much more sex positive this year, and this is something I would usually avoid doing from my own internal anxiety about my body and from just being proud of the sex that I have in general but since I met Nutrix, I am becoming proud of the sex life and private life we are building together and are now hoping as covid restrictions lift that we will get ourselves out to places where we can have more fun and let everyone know what we are up to.
So, bare with us and I hope to have more stuff to post on here very soon, but in the meantime keep an eye on both our Twitter accounts and let us know your thoughts about the content we are posting and retweeting of others too….
We are testing various things we want to add to the site, so this is the first opportunity for you to feedback below on what you see and for us to test our moderation efforts also, You need to register to be able to comment, but we are hoping to build up content worth registering for and allow you to submit your own too