I added my link in the menu bar to my CAM4 page last weekend. CAM4 is something that I’ve done on and off for a few years now, and I’ve had both good and bad experiences with it, but on the whole its added a number of positive experiences that I needed regarding my own body positive image during sex.
In a meet-up that I had last month, with a young lad who wanted the lights switching off in order for him to have sex, i recommended that he had a go at it, because until you see yourself as others perceive you, your own image can be so much more worse than what you actually face when you display yourself and start to receive feedback from other people. He was gorgeous but he was what i call stocky, because he had an amazing furry belly (which always turns me on), i wouldn’t have changed a thing, but he was so self-conscious about it, I didn’t push it.
Being worried about displaying my face on there, Ive always appeared hooded when Ive broadcast. Come one come all, Zalo is a persona that represents me and how i want to be perceived on there and sexually that’s also been quite a constructive part of putting myself on show live, and dealing with live comment feedback, which has on the whole been positive. Ive realised that I do have a great ass! Not because ive materially done anything to improve it, but because of the amount of comments received from lots of different people. Having been with someone for so many years that didn’t mention it, and obviously did not like my body, its then hard to change that perception, but CAM4 has helped.
First of all, the system requires that you register before you are allowed to send any comments at all to performers. Users therefore joining the site, have already gone thru a vet check, rather than you facing a cold-audience of just the internet! However users are under no obligation to put up a picture or description of themselves, so sometimes you still face chats from people who you have no idea what they look like, where they are from, or why on earth they would be watching your stream.
I love it when you get chatting to someone else who is streaming and they can see you and you can see them.
CAM4 is a live streaming website featuring live performances of primarily amateur sex performers. Broadcasts on CAM4 often feature nudity and sexual activity. When i originally found the site, I was turned on by the number of amateur performers were broadcasting themselves and receiving positive comments regarding their stream. There are lots and lots of performers on there that never show their face on the camera because its firmly pointed at their torso and them enjoying themself live. The ability to send a broadcaster tokens also incentivises the audience to tip them to go further than they currently have with their camera feed. Given the live nature of those streams and watching positive comments come in from audiences, who to be frank rarely tip because that would involve them purchasing CAM4 tokens and converting actual cash into the CAM4 online virtual currency, its is so nice when you see a positive comment appear or are tipped for your performance or to perform further.
If you get set up as a performer than send me a message and let me know you tried it because of this article maybe, or give me a shout next time im broadcasting on there. If you fancy appearing on there with me whilst i demonstrate toys, bondage or other things on cam DM me on Twitter 😉